Gary Winters

Coach  Workshop Facilitator Author

Most managers are in leadership positions, but not all leaders are in management positions.

What does it really mean, to lead?

There are literally dozens of definitions, but the one I like the most is this (attributed to Dwight Eisenhower): Leadership appears to be the art of getting others to want to do something you want done.

Something subtle about that definition – it’s about getting others to want to do something. It’s not just about making others do something.

Since managers (supervisors, directors, CEOs, etc.) are, by default, in the business of getting others to do things they want done, the best of them are leaders who know how to get others to actually want to do those things.

They do this by engaging in the following steps:

  1. They create a vivid, compelling picture of what the end result (once the thing is done) will look like.  This picture is called their vision.
  2. They figure out a way to describe this vision in very simple language. Two well-known examples:

    I believe that this nation should commit itself to achieving the goal, before this decade is out, of landing a man on the moon and returning him safely to the Earth.” John Kennedy

    “Mr. Gorbachev, open this gate! Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall!” Ronald Reagen

  3. They stay focused and committed to that vision regardless of setbacks, obstacles, and skeptics.

In other words, successful leaders are people who:

  1. Have a vision.
  2. Describe it simply, and frequently.
  3. Don’t let themselves become distracted.

When you think about it that way, it’s easy to see that leaders do not have to be folks in management roles. It may seem like it’s easier to get others to (want to) do something you want done with a little positional power, that’s an illusion.

Yes, you can use positional authority to make someone do something, but that’s never going to be as good an outcome as you’ll get when you can get people to want to do it.

If you’ve been thinking that the only people in leadership roles in organizations are those who are “in charge,” think again. Anyone can be a leader.

“What ELSE Your Boss Never Told You” is the sequel to the very popular “What Your Boss Never Told You.” Packed inside are more tips, techniques, and insights about the challenging, but rewarding leadership position.

“What ELSE Your Boss Never Told You” is written in a conversational tone, as though you and the author were enjoying a cup of coffee and talking about the issues that emerge for new leaders. It stands alone, and/or could be read before or after the first volume, “What Your Boss Never Told You.” You can start with any chapter and read in any order you like.

if you search for a book on management, you’ll find a staggering 600,000+ books currently available. How can you narrow that down? “What Your Boss Never Told You” is the best place to start.

No textbook here – this book is short and sweet. It’s designed to help you “unpack” your new job and be effective from the first day with your new team. It contains twenty-one chapters filled with the wisdom Winters has gathered from real managers – effective, successful leaders in organizations much like yours.

Leaders make decisions every day – big and small. Most know that if they include others in the decision-making process, the quality of those decisions – and the commitment to them – will likely improve. That said, they also know it’s impractical, if not impossible, to include others in every decision they confront.

“To Do or Not To Do” tackles the question of when to make decisions on your own, and when to involve your team. It gives you a deceptively simple but proven method to determine, when you are facing a difficult decision, how to decide how to decide.

Far too many meetings are dreadful, mind-numbing, energy-draining, productivity-sapping, colossal wastes of time. As someone once said, “To kill time, a meeting is the perfect weapon.”

Here’s the deal: if you’re willing to learn and apply the techniques in “So, How Was Your Meeting?”, you’ll call fewer meetings, while vastly improving the ones you do lead. They’ll take less time, have more balanced participation, produce better decisions, and result in concrete action items for follow-up afterwards.

While there are thousands of books written for people about to retire, this may be the only book for people who manage soon-to-retire employees. Written in a casual, conversational style, “Managing the Soon To Retire Employee” will give you everything you need to know to move forward with confidence and grace.

You can be successful with Sooners. It won’t happen by chance, and it’s not a matter of pulling some management “trick” out of your hat. But you can learn how to do it, and you can apply what you’ve learned right away.

Managing friends or former peers can be awkward. When you become the boss, everything about these relationships can suddenly be uncomfortable. There’s a new set of ground rules to establish – as manager, you are going be accountable for the work performance of friends or former co-workers on the team, and they are going to have to adjust to the fact that they now report to you. Everyone involved can feel awkward and hesitant about the future. 

Have you been approached by management with an offer to promote you to supervision? Or, are you mulling over the possibility for the future? Find yourself not sure whether to accept the promotion?

If so, you’ve come to the right place. Help! They Want to Make ME a Supervisor will help you sort out a very big question: Should you accept the offer to become a supervisor? Once you’ve read this book, you’ll be confident that you’ve made the best decision for you and for your organization.